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[Education] - What goes around, comes around.
Written by madnilk Wednesday, 14 October 2009 18:39
Hello everyone, hope that you have a great day and let we share any happiness toward better life and relationships. Today I'm going to share a great article that touch my heart, and hopes that yours too. People have long forget what the true meaning of 'giving away' - let hope that we'll remember it again. Have a great time reading. Love you all Daa...
What goes around, comes around.
One day a man saw an old lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.
Even with the smile on his face, she was worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn't look safe; he looked poor and hungry.
He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill which only fear can put in you.
He said, 'I'm here to help you, ma'am. Why don't you wait in the car where it's warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.'
Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two. Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.
As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn't thank him enough for coming to her aid.
Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped.
Bryan never thought twice about being paid.
This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him a hand in the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.
He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, 'And think of me.'
He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.
A few miles down the road the lady saw a small cafe. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet the whole day couldn't erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude. The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Bryan .
After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin.
There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: 'You don't owe me anything. I have been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I'm helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you.'
Under the napkin were four more $100 bills.
Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard....
She knew how worried her husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, 'Everything's going to be all right.. I love you, Bryan Anderson.'
There is an old saying 'What goes around comes around.' Today I sent you this story, and I'm asking you to pass it on. Let this light shine.
Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND - I love and appreciate every single of you!!
[Education] - Learning to find positive things within their negative aspects.
Written by madnilk Tuesday, 30 June 2009 18:40
Many of us out there always clueless when experiencing something that being consider negative in life. We taken things which happened not according to what we want as bad luck, karma and many other dark effect. But, as human we have never imagine and thinks that what really happen is a great gift from GOD.
Let us read and make a sense out of below details:
WE SHOULD BE GRATEFUL FOR...
- Husband/wife that sleep snoring in bed, cause being beside us rather than others.
- Child/sibling grumbling while cleaning dishes cause their at home and not at street gallivanting.
- The income tax that we paid up every year as prove that we still have job.
- Our clothes so tight and not fit, which shows that we are well fed.
- floor to be mop up, window to wipe house to keep clean and tidy, cause it's mean that we have accommodations.
- Noisy friends and neighbors, does it show that our hearing are great and kicking.
- Heaps of clothes that need to be wash/iron as prove that we have 'thing' to worn.
- Fatigue/pain muscle after work hard, in means of we still cope to work and healthy.
- Car park far from lift, as evidence that we could still walk.
- Alarm clock rings every morning cause we're still live to continue the day.
And,
Finally....
For reading this personal and meaningful articles of mine that remind how fortunate and thankful we should be.
" IF WE DON'T GET WHAT WE WANT, LEARN TO ACCEPT AND BE GRATEFUL OF WHAT WE HAVE!!"
p/s: I'm grateful to have friends reading this articles 
[Education] - Make use Law of Attraction
Written by madnilk Monday, 11 May 2009 00:00
Many would say that achieving goal is something hard to reach. They always said that people who had achieve their target and goal have something so called secret. The facts that 'they' do is something that common as knowledge among those who know about psychology, which state as cognitive dissonance.
In certain study people might have feel the occurrence but they never realize it because of their self-ignorance. Sit back and let we share it all here.
For an example, you may have noticed that if you change anything in your life, you start to notice that there are many more of them on the "road". This phenomenon happens due to how our mind filters information that going through our self-awareness all the time. Our senses only notice the things that come through the filters ans those thing that interest us and it works at our unconscious level.
So, what is the next step?
All we have to do to use 'the' feature of this mind state, is with changing on things that we wish to notice within our unconscious mind state.This is amazingly easy thing to do. There are many methods that will do, but which ever you choose to use, please be careful on what you wish for because it will come true - if you work it right.
There are several pattern of ways, but let us focus with just only two.
Making mind map pattern note about things that you would like to do or have during period of time term. Put down anything that you want to happen however impossible base on your current state. Use this as basis for developing the ideas and double check everything with run through the goal setting process for each one. Make define and firm but never to precise (its a lot easier to achieve some goal that set to achieve rather being specific). Like wise, I want to have a BMW's 3 series car - rather than 'that' car with specific modification and etc. Make your decision until ya' feel happy and start with the execution plans.
Take cut up pictures from any magazine that have suite your ideal mind map pattern. Now, get a large sheet of paper and arrange the pictures that you have selected in any way that you like and stick them down. Some people make them sequential. others prefer a random placement around central theme or even a tree or plant with the images hanging from the branches. Now stick the collage on a convenient wall in your house so that as you live your normal life, you'll walk past and notice it in your peripheral vision.
Another excellent way of setting your unconscious to accomplish things is the time line technique of putting a goal into your future line. Where you set some definite time frame of what will you gain in term of given period. This technique is quite difficult unless you already assemble solution with assist to each of your goals.
Of course,you can do both and have double the fun! I've done this technique my own way and right now,I'm walking through it.
So, just have a go and see what happens.
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